Sweet Tips And Tricks For Life Hack

🔵 Get up early in the morning and go to bed early. Don't go back to sleep if you wake up before your alarm.
صبح سویرے اٹھیں اور جلدی سونے پر جائیں۔ اگر آپ اپنے الارم سے پہلے جاگتے ہیں تو واپس سونے نہ جائیں

🔵 Have a heavy breakfast
بھاری ناشتہ کریں

🔵 Eat healthy, drink healthy
صحت مند کھا لو ، صحتمند پیو

🔵 Exercise daily
روزانہ ورزش کریں

🔵 Set your priorities and schedule your work ahead of time. Make sure you do it in time too.
اپنی ترجیحات طے کریں اور وقت سے پہلے اپنے کام کا شیڈول بنائیں۔ اس بات کو یقینی بنائیں کہ وقت پر بھی آپ یہ کام کریں

🔵 Don't hold grudges against anyone. Forgive where you can.
کسی کے خلاف بغض نہ رکھنا۔ جہاں کر سکتے ہو معاف کرو۔

🔵 Try not to form biased opinions about anyone
کسی کے بارے میں متعصبانہ رائے قائم نہ کرنے کی کوشش کریں

🔵 Your close ones are the best gift you have. Take good care of
آپ کے قریبی لوگ آپ کے لئے . بہترین تحفہ ہیں۔ ان کا اچھا خیال رکھنا۔

🔵 Listen more. Speak only when it's most fruitful
مزید سنو۔ صرف تب ہی بات کریں جب یہ زیادہ فائدہ مند ہو

🔵 Control your anger. People are least themselves when they are angry.
اپنے غصے پر قابو پالیں۔ لوگ ناراض ہونے پر کم از کم خود ہوتے ہیں۔

🔵 Say good things about people. If you don't have any good to say about someone, stay silent.
لوگوں کے بارے میں اچھی باتیں کہو۔ اگر آپ کو کسی کے بارے میں اچھا کہنا نہیں ہے تو خاموش رہیں

🔵 Practice proper cleanliness and hygiene
مناسب صفائی اور حفظان صحت پر عمل کریں

🔵 You are in control of your mood. Don't depend on anyone else to brighten you up.
آپ اپنے موڈ کے قابو میں ہیں۔ آپ کو روشن کرنے کے لئے کسی اور پر انحصار نہ کریں۔

🔵 Be goal oriented through your life
اپنی زندگی کے دوران مقصد پر مبنی رھو

🔵 Keep a positive attitude
ایک مثبت رویہ رکھیں

🔵 Be open to criticism
تنقید کے لئے کھلا رہو

🔵 Give the best in whatever you do
آپ جو بھی دیں اس میں سب سے بہتر دیں

🔵 Learn from the mistakes of the past, forget bad memories, and press on to greater achievements.
ماضی کی غلطیوں سے جانیں ، بری یادوں کو فراموش کریں ، اور بڑی کامیابیوں کی طرف گامزن رہیں۔

🔵 Nurture your hobbies and maintain recreational activities which will sharpen your life skills
اپنے مشاغل کی پرورش کریں اور تفریحی سرگرمیاں برقرار رکھیں جو آپ کی زندگی کی مہارت کو تیز کردے گی

🔵 When someone trusts you, prove yourself worthy of it
جب کوئی آپ پر بھروسہ کرتا ہے تو اپنے آپ کو اس کے اہل بنائیں

🔵 Maintain respect for people regardless of how you are treated by others
احترام برقرار رکھیں لوگوں کے لئے نظر انداز کر یں کے لوگ آپ کے ساتھ کس طرح برتاؤ کرتے ہے

🔵 Focus on those few people that really care for you than trying to impress those who make you feel depleted
ان لوگوں پر توجہ دیں جو واقعی آپ کی دیکھ بھال کرتے ہیں ان لوگوں کو متاثر کرنے کی کوشش کرنے سے جو آپ کو افسردہ کرتے ہیں

🔵 Stay in the company of those having a great character and morals and avoid bad influences
اچھے کردار اور اخلاق رکھنے والوں کی صحبت میں رہیں اور برے اثرات سے بچیں

🔵 Look for the good in everyone, and make them feel worthwhile
ہر ایک میں بھلائی کی تلاش کریں ، اور انہیں قابل قدر محسوس کریں

🔵 Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own
دوسروں کی کامیابی کے بارے میں اتنا ہی جوش و خروش رکھیں جتنا آپ اپنے ہی بارے میں ہیں

🔵 Whenever you help someone make sure to not expect anything in return
جب بھی آپ کسی کی مدد کریں اس کے بدلے میں کسی چیز کی توقع نہ کریں

🔵 Share as long as it's not a threat to anyone. Abstain from over-sharing.
جب تک یہ کسی کے لئے خطرہ نہ ہو تب تک شئیر کریں۔ زیادہ سے زیادہ شیئرنگ سے پرہیز کریں۔

🔵 Use humor sensibly
ہنسی مذاق استعمال کریں

🔵 Live in the present moment
موجودہ لمحے میں زندہ رہیں

🔵 Don't take life way too seriously
زندگی کو زیادہ سنجیدگی سے نہ لیں

🔵 Stop trying to control everything
ہر چیز پر قابو پانے کی کوشش کرنا چھوڑ دو

🔵 Compliment yourself
خود کی تعریف کریں

🔵 Say sorry when you know you should

معذرت کریں جب آپ جانتے ہو کہ آپ کو کرنا چاہئے

🔵 Get a mentor and seek his counsel when the going gets tough
جب مشقت جاری ہوجائے تو مشیر بنیں اور ان کی صلاح لیں

🔵 Read good books and watch good movies (if doubtful then verfy )
اچھی کتابیں پڑھیں اور اچھی فلمیں دیکھیں اگر شک ہے تو تصدیق کریں

🔵 Don't abuse resources. Save water, electricity, time, money - whatever and whenever you can.
وسائل کا غلط استعمال نہ کریں۔ پانی ، بجلی ، وقت ، رقم کی بچت کریں - جو بھی اور جب بھی ہوسکتے ہیں۔

🔵 Eat only as much as you can
جتنا ہو سکے کھا لو

🔵 When in doubt take a dump
جب شک ہو تو پرہیز کریں

🔵 Save an empty jar and "fill it with notes of good things that happen" this year. Then, next year, you can empty the jar and "see what awesome stuff happened that year."
ایک خالی جار رکھیں "اس کواچھی چیزوں کے ساتھ بھریں جو اس سال ہوئ ھو اس کے بعد ، اگلے سال ، آپ برتن کو خالی کر سکتے ہیں اور "دیکھ سکتے ہیں کہ اس سال کیا زبردست سامان /مواد ہوا تھا۔"


🔵 When writing an email, leave the recipient email field blank until you're ready to send it. This prevents accidental emails. Also additionally, you can delay your outgoing emails by a minute to avoid sending out emails that haven't been proofread or don't have the attached documents.
ای میل لکھتے وقت ، وصول کنندہ کے ای میل فیلڈ کو خالی چھوڑ دیں جب تک کہ آپ اسے بھیجنے کے لئے تیار نہ ہوں۔ یہ حادثاتی ای میلز کو روکتا ہے۔ مزید برآں ، آپ اپنی جانے والی ای میلز کو ایک منٹ تک موخر کرسکتے ہیں تاکہ ای میلز بھیجنے سے بچیں جو پروف پڑھ نہیں چکے ہیں یا ان کے ساتھ منسلک دستاویزات نہیں ہیں۔

🔵 Wait a few months before sharing a lifestyle change
طرز زندگی میں تبدیلی کا اشتراک کرنے سے پہلے کچھ ماہ انتظار کریں

🔵 Stay updated with the news
خبروں کے ساتھ اپ ڈیٹ رہیں

🔵 Instead of crossing words out with lines, cross them out with letters, so they won't be legible.
الفاظ کو لائنوں سے تجاوز کرنے کی بجائے ان کو حرفوں کے ساتھ عبور کریں ، لہذا وہ قابل تقلید نہیں ہوں گے۔

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Eid_Ul_Fitr Wishes For You And Family 2020

Eid_Ul_Fitr Wishes For You And Your Family

Eid Mubarak to you and your family. Enjoy this day to the fullest.

May Allah open the door of happiness and prosperity for you.

Wishing you a joyful Eid. May Allah shower his blessings on you always.

May all your wishes and dreams come true this Eid.

May your life be always beautiful, peaceful and prosperous.

May the blessings of Allah be with you and your family always.

May this Eid fill your heart with pure joy, love and happiness.

Everyone! Peace be upon you and pray to Allah Almighty. May Allah have mercy on us

May Allah show his mercy upon us always

آپ کو اور آپ کے اہل خانہ کو عید مبارک۔ اس دن سے بھرپور لطف اٹھائیں۔

اللہ آپ کے لئے خوشی اور خوشحالی کا دروازہ کھولے۔

آپ کو خوشگوار عید کی مبارکباد۔ اللہ پاک آپ پر ہمیشہ برکت نازل فرمائے۔

آپ کی تمام خواہشات اور خواب اس عید پر پورے ہوں۔

آپ کی زندگی ہمیشہ خوبصورت ، پرامن اور خوشحال رہے۔

اللہ کی رحمتیں آپ اور آپ کے اہل خانہ کے ساتھ ہمیشہ رہیں۔

یہ عید آپ کے دل کو خالص خوشی ، محبت اور خوشی سے بھر دے۔

سب! سلامت رہیں اور اللہ تعالی سے دعا کریں۔ ہم پر اللہ تعالیٰ اپنی

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8 indirect ways that men show their love to women.

    8 indirect ways that men show their love to women.

Do you ever feel like your husband is an absolute mystery? This personality-type can be alluring at first, but with time it may leave you scratching your head and wondering: “How does he feel about me?”

It is often said that women love to verbalize their love, while men like to show it in other ways. If you’re feeling like your hubby isn’t as verbal as you might like him to be with his affections, don’t despair. There are secret signs you can read that show how he is really feeling about his happy married life.

From defending their honor to tickling their legs, men have their own ways of expressing love and devotion to their wives – and not all of them are crystal clear to the women in their lives!

8 indirect ways that men show their love to women.

1. He Builds Intimacy

When it comes to love in marriage, there is nothing more important than establishing an intimate connection to your spouse.

Intimacy is so much more than getting physical with your spouse. It’s about creating an emotional and physical bond.

You will know that your husband is expressing affection when he goes out of his way to communicate with you when he is feeling uneasy.

He will share goals, thoughts, feelings, and physical affection with you and he isn’t afraid to be vulnerable.

These are wonderful qualities to have in a husband that will assure you of his love for you.

2. He Defends You

It goes without saying that a man who loves his wife would never disrespect her to his friends or family.

Saying things about your cooking, cleaning, work-ethic, or sexual habits are completely off-limits in his mind. The only person he wants to discuss these things with is you.

Want to know how deep love and marriage really go in your husband’s mind? One secret way men show love is by defending you.

3. He Invites You Out

Men value their personal time with ‘the guys’. This is the evening they get to connect with friends, watch sports, play video games, and have a couple of drinks.

These are all pastimes that are healthy for your husband to pursue on his own. However, one secret way he’ll show his love for you is if he invites you out to a ‘guys night’ event. This means that not even a beer-swilling evening with the guys is worth missing out on spending time with you.

This same principle works if he is heading out to spend time with his close family and invites you along.

By extending the invitation for you to hang out with the people he loves the most, you can be sure that you make the top of that list.

4. He Gives His Time

One of the most precious things anyone can give you is their time and their undivided attention.

In fact, getting someone’s attention without a cell phone notification getting in the way may be considered ‘true love’ these days.

Jokes aside, when your husband loves you he will want to give you his time and affection – no matter what the situation.

If you’re heading out for a walk around the block or to pick up a few groceries, he’s down to go with you. If he has a night off, there is no doubt that he wants to spend it with you. This is the sign of real love from your man.

5. He Picks Up Girly Things

Want to know about true love and marriage? If your husband has a happy married life he won’t mind picking up your laundry list of ‘girly’ items from the store.

These embarrassing grocery lists may include having him buy bathroom wipes, girly deodorant, picking up the dry-cleaning, shopping for ‘unmentionable’ feminine hygiene products, or fetching your birth control.
No matter the embarrassing item, your husband is willing to risk a tinge of public unease just to make you happy. Now that’s love.

6. He Can Apologize

Apologies can be powerful. Whether you’re discussing who left the toilet seat up or why your sweetheart didn’t call you like they promised, a simple apology can do so much to diffuse a situation. It’s a way of showing respect and empathy and acknowledging wrongdoing.
Husbands who love their wives show it by apologizing when they are wrong (and hey, sometimes when he’s right!) because they put their spouse’s feelings above an argument.
This is a wonderful quality to have in a partner and shows just how much he loves you.

7. He Asks for your Advice

One of the sweetest ways a guy can show he loves and values his wife is by asking for her help and her advice on a matter. This means he values your thoughts, feelings, and intelligence enough to use it as a guidepost for any issues he’s having.
Men are often considered ‘fixers’. Whether it’s his wife’s hurt feelings or the broken door handle, men go into a problem with the intent of fixing it as soon as possible.
Men can also be proud by nature, which makes him coming to you for advice the ultimate sign that not only does he love you, but he deeply respects your opinions.

8. He Listens

Is there anything sexier than a man who listens? Some say that men fall short when it comes to listening. From squabbles with her friends to which leggings are her favorite, husband’s who love their wives will listen to whatever is on their minds.
Sometimes men can be hard to read, even if that man is your husband! It’s important to remember that men and women show their love in different ways.
If your husband is always willing to give you his time, works hard at building intimacy, and respects your opinions, you can be sure he loves you dearly.

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People Thought This 22-year-old Was Dating A Young Girl But The Reality Was So Much Weirder!

People Thought This 22-year-old Was Dating A Young Girl But The Reality Was So Much Weirder!

Meet Liu Yelin, she’s a Chinese mother who is 50 years old, but looks younger than anyone of that age. How is that possible? Well, she has a few secrets of her own and we are about to unveil them. Right now Liu Yelin is 49, but looks no more than 25. When she goes shopping or walks with her 22-year-old son, most people think she’s her son’s girlfriend. And she looks the part! So what’s her secret?

Liu Yelin has no wrinkles whatsoever and rocks a body of a supermodel. She told Mail Online that people never believed her real age was almost 50. It was too shocking for them!

If you think she looks young now – how about when Liu Yelin was in her 20s? She used to be unbearably sweet with hints of the mature beauty that was to bloom later.

It’s hard to blame all those people who thought she was dating her son. She looks superb! Liu Yelin was asked about her gorgeous looks and she easily revealed her secret. For the past 30 years, she’s been doing weight training everyday as well as swimming in the lake all year round.

                  

So if you want to be as fit as Liu Yelin, you need to do some pretty serious exercising – everyday! Right now, she has more than 75k followers on Weibo and that number is growing as we speak. She’s such a big inspiration for everyone!

People always ask for passport as proof of her age. No wonder! It’s hard to believe she’s almost 50 when she rocks such smooth skin. It looks simply flawless!

The key is to love life and have as much fun as possible. Being almost 50, Liu Yelin is as active as she was 30 years ago and spends most of her time outdoors.

Now Liu wants to travel the world and see as many countries as possible. She continues to live by her motto, inspiring millions of people all across the globe.

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12 Tips For Creating a Relationship That Lasts Forever

Why are relationships so complicated? Because they involve pairs of complicated people who have their own complicated thought processes and complicated emotions and complicated complications. Most people would have no idea what that previous sentence means, but fortunately our incredibly intelligent Her Beauty readers understand everything, including what it takes to make a relationship last for the rest of your life.

1. Understand That it is Okay to Agree to Disagree
When you’re in a relationship, disagreements are bound to happen when you have completely different point-of-views on things. It could be related to religion or even whether or not it is okay to eat meat. But you must recognize that there are situations in which you will never change your partner’s mind and that’s okay!

2. Focus on Trust and Forgiveness
It goes without saying that in order for a relationship to last forever, you can’t allow yourself to believe the other person is not worthy of your trust. The constantly feeling that they must be up to something will only sow the seeds of mutual resentment. Along the same lines, when your partner hurts your feelings, you should communicate this and forgive them.

3. Don’t Hide Who You Are
Honesty and openness are essential if you want a lifelong relationship. Your partner should know about your strengths and weaknesses, goals and fears (and vice versa). These are the things that will make you feel closer to each other. If you remain a mystery to them, they will eventually grow tired of trying to guess who you are and the relationship is going to be doomed.

4. Realize That It Isn’t Selfish to Look Out For Your Interests
A lot of times, when couples get into a relationship, one of them wants to play the role of people pleaser. As a result, they won’t say “no” to going to a baseball game even if they find it boring. Or they will keep agreeing to get dinner at that mediocre Italian restaurant. While life is occasionally about doing things you don’t want to, there are times when you should stand up for yourself. A lifelong partner would understand and respect this.

5. Be Willing To Discuss Both What’s Good and What’s Wrong
The foundation of a relationship that lasts forever starts with appreciating the good aspects while not ignoring the things that are creating tensions. You might be hesitant to rock the boat, but the truth is that pretending like everything is okay when it clearly isn’t will eventually become too much for either of you to handle.

6. Don’t Keep Bringing Up Old Conflicts
Remember 2 years ago when you traveled to Rome together and he/she acted like a jerk one of those days and it totally ruined the entire trip? Couples in lifelong relationships don’t try to open old wounds by mentioning negative things that happened in the past. Bating a partner is unproductive and will ensure that the relationship won’t last.

7. Don’t View Your Partner’s Mistakes as Personal Flaws
Nobody is perfect. Sometimes we show up late to things or we leave the cake in the oven too long. But instead of pointing out all of these things and trying to make your partner feel guilty or inadequate, try to find a positive way to spin these problems. For instance, encouragement instead of criticizing, and work on solving time management issues together. By working as a team, the relationship will remain a happy one.

8. Love Your Partner Even When You’re In a Bad Mood
If you’re having a bad day, never take it out on your partner. Find a way to deal with your frustrations before you see him or her again. Or better yet, use their emotional support to help you overcome whatever happened that caused the bad mood. It is also important to note that if your partner is the one who caused the bad mood, do not give them the cold shoulder or swat away their hand when they are reaching for yours. In lifelong relationships, the love is there no matter what.

9. Make Affection a Daily Routine
No matter how long you’ve been with your partner, never turn it into an “old couple” relationship. Find time to compliment him/her everyday. Hold hands where ever you go. Hug and kiss randomly. Dress up and go out on dates even if you’re married or headed that way! As long as the affection is there, there will always be that spark. This is what allows relationships to last forever.

10. Continue to Work on the Relationship
If you feel that your relationship is close to ideal, that’s wonderful. But it doesn’t mean you should grow complacent. Continue to find ways to improve your situation. Is there anything that is lacking at the moment that could potentially become a problem in the future? For instance, have you developed any hobbies together? Does one of you do all of the cleaning while the other one just sits there? By constantly communicating and remaining aware of the status of your relationship, it will stay strong.

11. Accept the Qualities that You Don’t Like
Does it annoy you that your partner is always full of sunny enthusiasm? Are you unimpressed with their taste in music? Being in a successful relationship doesn’t require you to have the exact same personality or interests. While you might find little things irritating (just as you can be certain that there are things about you that annoy him/her!), don’t let them come between you and the relationship. Deal with these qualities with humor or even affection and just accept your partner as a whole.

12. Be Best Friends
Of course this had to make the list. A romantic partner who is meant to be with you forever should also be the person who you would want to hang out with if given a choice. Do all of the things that you would do with a best friend: watch movies on the sofa on a Saturday afternoon, be playful, appreciate how much sense you make to each other.

Ramadan Importantance

Ramadan Importantance...

Ramadan Mubarak is the ninth month on the Islamic calendar. Ramadan has immense importance in Quran and Hadith and Ramadan is that month which has been mentioned repeatedly in the Quran.

Allah says in the Quran that Ramadan is the month when Quran was sent. (Surah Baqra:185)
In this month, one night (Lailatul Qadr) is such that it is better and more auspicious than 1000 nights. (AL Qadr:3)

Hazrat Salman RA says that the Holy Prophet (May peace be upon Him)said on the last date of Shaa’ban, that on you a month is coming , that is a big and holy month; in that month is one night that is better than a thousand months. Allah has made fasting compulsory for this month and made the prayer of night a reward.

Whoever does a good deed in this month to gain the allegiance of Allah’s and his closeness, has earns the reward of a compulsory act in any other month; and whichever person does a compulsory act in this month gains the reward similar to that of seventy compulsory acts in any other month. This month is for people to gain as much reward as they can and the livelihood and blessings of Allah is increased manifolds in this holy month for every believer.

When the first night of Ramadan comes, all the gates of heaven are opened, and throughout the whole month not even a single door closes. Shaitan, the devil, is chained in this month. Allah asks to give out the following order, “O those who wish to do good, step forward; O those who wish to do bad, step backwards.” Then He says, “Is there anyone asking for forgiveness so that he may be forgiven; is there anyone asking a question, so that his question may be answered; and is there anyone asking to be pardoned so that he may be pardoned.”

All holy books were sent to earth in this month; Hazrat Ibrahim RA got his holy guidelines from 1st to 3rd Ramadan, Hazrat Dawood RA got Zaboor from 12th to 18th Ramadan, Hazrat Moosa RA got Taurat on the 6th of Ramadan, Hazrat Isa RA got Injeel from 12th to 13th Ramadan. Quran was sent in the sacred nights of the last Ashra of the holy month of Ramadan; one night from amongst these was given the title of Shab-e-Qadr.

The fact that fasting is compulsory is found through the Quran and that is the key to abstinence. Abstinence is the one thing that stops people from going towards the wrong and encourages them to go towards the right. The real aim of fasting is to make human wishes surrender in front of Allah’s orders. When a person who is fasting abstains from all eating, drinking, and other wishes, then he stays away from other wrong doings also. Instead, most of his time is then spent doing worship of Allah or good deeds. Apart from abstinence, fasting also treats personality issues like self obsession and ego.

The month of Ramadan is collectively auspicious for all Muslims. Fasting in this holy month is not only good for physical reasons for humans, but also gives the message of patience for all living things in this universe. Amongst one of the spiritual effects of Ramadan is the fact that during the first few fasts, hunger and thirst are felt, but slowly the body gets used to it. Since we have fat deposits inside our body, the necessities of the body are fulfilled.

In this basic life where spiritual and physical benefits of fasting are present, there are also benefits of it in the hereafter like pardoning of sins and blessings. Hadith of Holy Prophet (May peace be upon Him) narrates that, “Heaven has eight doors, amongst which one is called Bab-ul-Riyan from which only those who kept fasts will enter.” Another Hadith says, “Whoever keeps one fast for the happiness of Allah; Allah will keep him so far away from the fire of hell that no person would be able to reach there in seventy years.”

Virtues of the Fasting:

• The bad smell coming out of a fasting person’s mouth is better than any other good smell, to Allah.
• Even the fish of the water pray for those fasting.
• Heaven is made closer to them every day.
• The standing, sitting, working and even sleeping of a person fasting is considered worship.
• One big benefit of fasting is the visiting of Allah; which will be given on the Day of Judgment
• All the sins of a person fasting are forgiven and ranks are increased.
• On the last night of Ramadan, pardoning is done for those fasting. A Sahaba asked, is this night the night of forgiveness? Reply was, No, but the tradition is that a labour is paid after his work is completed. (Ibn-e-Haban)

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Importantance Of Ramadan

1) The importance of Ramadan for the Muslims, particularly times of adversity.

2) The importance of reading Quran and pondering over its meanings.

3) The phenomena of desertion of  Quran.

4) Factors that prevent a person from pondering over the meanings of  Quran.

5) Virtues of Qiyaam (night prayer) during Ramadan.

6) Etiquettes of Du’a and its great importance in Islam. 

7) Things that prevent Du’a from being answered.

8) Ramadan is the month of perseverance




All praise is due to Allah, Lord of all the worlds. May peace and blessings be upon His Messenger, his household and companions.
Fellow Muslims! I implore myself and you all to fear Allah; this honors the soul and brings it close to its Lord. No God-fearing person will ever fail and anyone who disregards the importance of piety will never be successful.


Dear Muslims! Whoever observes the condition of people in light of the current trials, tribulations and calamities that are occurring all over the world will see that the Muslims are in dire need of a generous guest that brings with it relief and progress. They are in need of this grand guest with whom they hope to be strengthened after a series of indescribable calamities and weakening incidents; hence their need for this great month of tranquility and spiritual development. It is the month of self-examination, conscience reawakening and freedom from selfishness and lustful desires. Allah says that which translates as: "O you who have believed! Decreed upon you is fasting as it was decreed upon those before you, that you may become righteous." (Al-Baqarah/ 183)



Fellow Muslims! The month of Ramadan is the month of Quran; a Book whose light will never fade and which is a path that never leads one astray. The Glorious Quran is to man as the soul is to the body; it is a light for guidance. Whoever does not read Quran or doesnt put its injunctions into practice is dead, despite the fact that they may speak and move. Whoever does not put it into practice, has gone far astray even if they are apparently successful in all areas of life.
Allah says that which translates as: "Is one who is dead and We gave him life and made for him light by which to walk among the people like one who is in darkness, never to emerge there from?" (Al-An’aam/ 122) 



A human being without the guidance of Quran is like any living being without air or water; all their endeavors will end up in bankruptcy. Allah says that which translates as: "Say: 'It is for those who believe, a guidance and a cure'. And those who do not believe – in their ears is deafness, and it (i.e. Quran) is upon them blindness. Those are being called from a distant place."
 (Fussilat/ 44)


Fellow Muslims! There is no doubt that the relationship of many Muslims with Quran is one of abandonments of either its recitation or implementation of its injunctions. It is no exaggeration to say that the diseases of past nations have affected the Muslims, while they are unaware of this. Allah says that which translates as: “And there are among them unlettered people who do not know not the Scripture except (indulging in) wishful thinking, but they are only assuming.” (Al Baqarah/ 78) The scholars of Tafsir say about this verse: 'It means: they know nothing about the Book except for its recitation, for it never passed their lungs and throats. This is because of the fact that there was a spiritual absence in their recitation and; therefore, they were unable to ponder over its meanings'.



Among the causes of the absence of reflection on the meanings of Quran is the failure to explore and understand the laws of Allah in relation to human-beings and natural phenomena. Also, to blame is the sanctification of erroneous concepts and wrong interpretations of life that have become widespread among people and which are caused by unrestrained love for this world and the hatred of death. Ziyaad Ibn Labeed Al-Ansari ( may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) mentioned something and then said: "….and that is when there will be no more knowledge. We said, ‘O Messenger of Allah! How will knowledge disappear while we have Quran with us and we teach it to our children and while they will also teach it to theirs?’ The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) retorted: I thought you were one of the most knowledgeable of the people of Madinah! Are there not Jews and Christians who have their scriptures with them and yet they take no benefit from what is inside them?’" (At-Tirmidhi and others). 



One is stricken with grief and shock when they see the stance that many Muslims have adopted with regard to the Book of their Lord. They have been covered by darkness and wander aimlessly; the foreign systems and ideologies that they have embraced have done nothing for them. How can it be that we have the light and yet follow the paths of other nations?
The Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) lived for sixty-three years; we are used to believing that old age and the vicissitudes of life cause hair to turn grey. What then will you think of a man who attributed grey hair to some verses of the glorious Quran that he used to recite? Abu Bakr ( may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) about what caused some of his beard to become grey, he (p.b.u.h.) replied: ‘It was caused by Soorah Hood, Soorah Al-Waaqi’ah, Soorah An-Naba’ and Soorah At-Takweer.”
 (At-Tirmidhi) 

Brothers in faith! The blessed month of Ramadan should be regarded as a wonderful opportunity for every Muslim to save himself from destruction and to purify their soul in preparation for Quranic guidance that is inherent in night prayer. Allah says that which translates as: “Indeed, the hours of the night (i.e. the rising for Tahajjud prayer) are more effective for concurrence (of heart and tongue) and more suitable for words (i.e. for recitation of Quran and for hearing and understanding it).” (Al-Muzzammil/ 6). 


Brothers in faith! The blessed month of Ramadan is a great opportunity for the Muslims to wake up for night prayers, seek refuge with Allah and turn to Him for their needs, for none has the power to answer their call except Allah alone. The Lord descends to the nearest heaven, in a way that befits his majesty, in the last third of the night and asks: "Is there anyone who seeks My forgiveness so that I can forgive him?" Do any of us ever reflect upon and appreciate this great period which is one of those in which supplications are answered? Tell me, what are the people doing in this last part of the night? Many a miserable soul missed this blessed period! Many people are in deep slumber at this time. It is saddening that some of those who are negligent of this great period are however, ready to go anywhere where they can lodge their complaints and seek solutions to their problems - from their fellow human beings, forgetting that it is only Allah who is capable of removing sorrow and distress. He says that which translates as: "What is (the matter) with you that you do not attribute to Allah (due) grandeur while He has created you in stages?" (Nooh/ 13-14) 

Imam Tirmidhi reported that the Prophet of Allah (p.b.u.h.) said: "There are three persons whose supplications are never rejected: The just leader, the fasting person when he breaks his fast and the oppressed when he supplicates and whose supplication is raised above the clouds and the gates of heaven are opened for it and Allah will say, 'By My Glory! I shall assist you even if it is after a while.'" 


Brothers in faith! There are; however, some people who raise their hands in prayer and are impatient for a rapid answer; they may even feel despair if their supplications are not speedily answered. The Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) said: "Allah will answer the supplication of any one of you as long as he is not hasty and says: ‘I called my Lord and He did not answer.’"
The delay may also be caused by sins such as the failure to uphold the rights of kinship, or perhaps it may be due to the fact that the prayer emanated only from the tongue and was not rooted in the heart. The Prophet (p.b.u.h.): "Allah does not accept the supplications from an inattentive heart." The heart is not free from turning to the desires of this life and we all know that one who always looks back does not reach his goal in time.


Therefore, I implore you O Muslims, to make plentiful supplications to Allah, for supplication is the essence of worship. Let nobody slight their requirements however great or small they may be. Allah says that which translates as: "And your Lord says: ‘Call upon Me; I will respond to you.’ Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell (rendered) contemptible.'" (Ghaafir/ 60)


Here is an example for those in sorrow and distress: The Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) entered the mosque one day and saw an Ansari (a resident of Madinah) man there by the name of Abu Umaamah. The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) asked him: " O Abu Umaamah, why are you sitting in the mosque at a time that is not a prayer time?" He replied: 'I was forced to do so by sorrow and debt.' The Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) then asked: 'Shall I teach you a supplication by which Allah will remove your sorrow and pay for you your debts?' He answered: 'O yes, Messenger of Allah!' The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) then said: 'Say every morning and evening: Allahumma innee a’oodhu bikka minal-hammi wal hazan, wa a’oodhu bika minal-‘ajzi wal-kasal wa a’oodhu bika minal-jubni wal-bukhul wa a’oodhu bika min ghalabatid-dayn wa qahrir-rijaal.’ (Meaning: O Allah, I seek refuge with You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being over powered by men.) Abu Umaamah said: 'I did that and Allah removed my distress and paid for me my debt.'" (Abu Dawood)


Fellow Muslims! The month of Ramadan is a month of generosity and spending in ways that are virtuous. Let every Muslim take part in the generosity of this month and not hesitate to wipe the tears off the faces of orphans, widows and the destitute. Let everyone keep away from stinginess and covetousness for these are two of the bad qualities from which the Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) sought refuge with his Lord from. The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) was the most generous of mankind and his generosity multiplied during the month of Ramadan. He would never say ‘no’ when he was asked of anything.

Further, the benefits of charity are not restricted to the beneficiary; the donor also has a share. An example of this is when a generous person gives in charity, their heart becomes gladdened and they become pleased with that. Therefore, this person will be encouraged to give more and gain extra rewards. As for the miser, whenever he thinks of giving in charity his heart feels constrained; he feels as if he is giving away a chunk of his life!, this in turn leads to his whole life feeling constrained. However, nothing destroys the tricks and insinuations of Satan more than giving sincerely in charity. 
Allah says that which translates as: "Satan threatens you with poverty and orders you to immorality, while Allah promises you forgiveness from Him and bounty. And Allah is All-Encompassing and Knowing." (Al-Baqarah/ 268)


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